What turns you on?
A workshop for the erotically curious
We all have things that turn us on, some we embrace and celebrate, some we keep tucked away, and some we don’t quite understand... yet.
What Turns You On is a workshop inviting you to explore your unique erotic wiring with curiosity and non judgement.
Rooted in the work of psychotherapist Jack Morin (The Erotic Mind), we’ll unpack the themes, emotions, and experiences that shape your arousal and how things like taboo, longing, and even shame can amplify your turn-ons.
Whether your desires feel crystal clear or confusing, this is a space to get to know them more deeply knowing you don’t need to fix, justify, or share more than you want to.
What We’ll Explore:
How your erotic imagination was shaped by your life story
The emotional flavours hidden inside your fantasies
Ways to transform shame into curiosity
More insights into what turns you on
What to expect:
Somatic memory drop-in to connect with past erotic experiences
Journaling and guided inquiry
Optional pair exercises in breakout rooms (always opt-in)
Tools for self-reflection, compassion, and erotic self-understanding
This workshop is for you if:
You feel like you’re resorting to scripts in your sexual life and aren’t sure what actually turns you on
You’re curious about the why behind what turns you on
You want to meet your desire with less shame and more understanding
You love personal growth through a sensual or erotic lens
You are willing to have your camera on to be on screen for the entire duration of the workshop. This is not the type of workshop where you can be off screen and do other things at the same time. If you can’t have your camera on during the workshop, we’ll have to take you out of the workshop.
Open to all genders, orientations, and experience levels.
You do not need to be partnered or “sexually active” to attend.
This is a clothed, non-touch-based workshop.
Refund Policy:
Tickets are refundable (75% of value) up to 8 days before the event - a 25% management fee is retained
Tickets are non refundable past 7. days until the event but can be resold and passed on. In the instance you have resold your ticket, please make sure you let Velvet know
About your facilitator
I’m Velvet Lilith, Somatic Sexologist and guide to your most unapologetic self.
I create spaces where Eros is not something to hide, but something to honour.
As a facilitator, I hold immersive workshops, retreats and Temples of erotic connections that invite people into deeper relationship with their bodies, boundaries, and desires. These spaces are crafted to feel both playful and profound, where curiosity is celebrated, consent is foundational, and every part of you is welcome.
In my private practice, I work with people who are ready to stop performing sexuality and start embodying it. People who sense there's something deeper, wilder, more honest waiting beneath the scripts they've been handed.
My work is rooted in sex-positivity, nervous system awareness, and the deep belief that pleasure is not a luxury, it's a birthright.
My work is for you if you're ready to explore what sexuality feels like when it's truly yours.
What people have said about velvet’s events
“Velvet is a powerful facilitator who creates an encouraging and safe space. The growth & insights from her workshop have stayed with me and deepened my self-awareness.”
“The experience was both healing and empowering, leaving me feeling more connected to myself and others. It was a reminder of the beauty of vulnerability and the power of authentic connection.”
