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WHO DO I work with?

I work with people who care about connection, to themselves, to their partners (if any), and to the truth of their own bodies.

These sessions are for you if:

  • You want to feel more in your body and less in your head

  • You’re experiencing challenges in the bedroom or accessing pleasure

  • You’re curious about your erotic self beyond performance and the scripts you’ve been handed

  • You’re learning to set boundaries or ask for what you want

  • You’ve done the mindset work but your body still holds the old stories

  • You want a space where your full spectrum is welcomed, messy, bold, awkward, sultry, wild

I work with all genders and identities, and honour the diversity of lived experiences and expression.

what we can explore

Each session is shaped around you and your needs. Topics we might explore together:

Sexual Function & ArousaL

  • Vaginismus

  • Dyspareunia (painful penetration)

  • Erectile challenges

  • Early ejaculation

  • Difficulty reaching orgasm

  • Low desire

  • Mismatched libido in relationships

  • Genital numbness

Relationship & Intimacy

  • Desire discrepancy

  • Navigating ethical non-monogamy

  • Opening relationships consciously

  • Attachment styles

  • Boundary setting and boundary repair

  • Learning to ask for what you want

  • Moving out of duty sex or avoidance patterns

Embodiment & Nervous System

  • Difficulty feeling sensations in the body

  • Freeze or shutdown during intimacy

  • Performance anxiety

  • Shame around desire

  • Religious or cultural conditioning

  • Reconnecting to pleasure

  • Building erotic confidence

Identity & Exploration

  • Queer identity exploration

  • Late-in-life sexual awakening

  • Tantra and Neo-tantra exploration and practices

  • Starting your kink journey safely (Note: I don’t teach specific BDSM skills but can recommend professional educators)

  • Erotic self-discovery

  • Deconstructing sexual scripts

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what happens in a session

Every session is shaped around you. There's no script, no protocol that every person moves through. We begin with conversation where you are, what you're carrying, what you're hoping for.

Depending on what emerges, a session might weave together: sex education that reframes something you've been carrying as a flaw or dysfunction, coaching towards a specific shift you want to make, somatic practices including breath, body awareness, sensation work, movement, that let you arrive in your body rather than just think about it.

Everything is led by your nervous system, your pace, and your ongoing consent. Nothing is done to you. Everything unfolds with you.

Sessions are non-genital and non-sexual. They are, however, deeply intimate, in the sense that they ask you to be honest with yourself, and to let yourself be seen in that honesty. For many people, that's the most profound thing they've ever experienced.

Intro session

An introductory session to explore your intention.

This is where we begin.

Whether you're curious, nervous, excited (or all of the above), this 90-minute session gives us time to get clear on your desires, your edges, and what you want to cultivate and work on a plan together.

90 minutes - $200

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ONE-OFF ON-GOING sessions

For adhoc support.

Together, we follow what’s alive, whether that’s processing something that surfaced after a session, strengthening your boundaries, softening into more pleasure, or discovering new layers of your erotic expression.


Think of this as ongoing support for your unfolding if you’re not ready to commit to a plan yet.

60 minutes - $150

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PACKAGED SESSIONS

For ongoing support, integration, or continued erotic discovery.

This is for those who want to see changes, maybe reclaiming your Eros, navigating a life transition, deepening self-trust, or exploring your desires.
We’ll map out an arc that supports you through four tailored sessions, with space for practice in between.

This option is perfect if you want to start seeing changes in your life.

4x 60 minutes - $550

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Frequently Asked Questions

  • No. My work is coaching and education, not therapy, and doesn't replace it. If you're working with a therapist, our work can be deeply complementary.

  • Sessions are held on zoom.

    Some sessions with long term clients may be in person (Melbourne, Australia) when needed.

  • Not at all. Curiosity is enough. Many people come simply to understand themselves better or to reconnect with pleasure after a period of disconnection.

  • It’s not uncommon. We live in a sex negative culture which can make talking about sex feel scary. We move at your pace in sessions. And I love talking about bodies and the erotic realms where you are welcome just. as you are!