Who AM I?

I’m Velvet Lilith, sensual provocateur, shame disruptor, and devoted guide into the realms of embodied pleasure.

I create spaces where Eros is not something to hide, but something to honour.

As a facilitator, I hold immersive workshops, events, retreats and Temples of erotic connections that invite people into deeper relationship with their bodies, boundaries, and desires. These spaces are crafted to feel both playful and profound, where curiosity is celebrated, consent is foundational, and every part of you is welcome.

As a mentor, I support people to peel back the layers of shame, cultural conditioning, and internalised 'shoulds', so they can discover who they are when nothing is being performed or repressed.

My work is rooted in sex-positivity, nervous system awareness, and the deep belief that pleasure is not a luxury, it's a birthright.

I'm not here to tell you how to be erotic.
I'm here to help you remember that you already are.

my background

My practice is the result of my journey through the erotic, the embodied, and the sacred.

With roots in somatics, somatic sexology, bodywork, energy healing, shamanic practices, my work is grounded in the intelligence of the body and the unseen layers that shape our experience of self and other.

I’ve studied Shakta and Shaiva Tantra lineages, as well as sacred sexuality and neo-Tantra, blending ancient pathways with modern modalities and philosophies. My facilitation is informed by years of study and practice across diverse modalities from devotional ritual to trauma-informed somatic work, from the soft power of touch to the wild pulse of Eros.

Though my work draws from sacred traditions, it’s grounded, down-to-earth, and made for real people navigating real lives, not just spiritual seekers, but anyone longing to feel more alive, embodied, and empowered.

Over the past decade, I’ve guided countless workshops, group and private transformational spaces, crafting immersive experiences that honour sovereignty, shame resilience, eros and the full spectrum of human expression.

Contact ME.

thevelvetlilith@gmail.com
0480 079 465