WILD PLAY
Pleasure wants your attention.
Play wants your permission.
Wild Play is where you give them both.
This retreat is for the curious, the hungry, the ones ready to drop into their bodies and explore.
It’s an invitation to learn through experience, to discover through sensation, to stretch into deeper layers of pleasure and play.
Over four days, we’ll move, explore, express, taste, laugh, rest, and feel.
This is where fun meets depth — where you can be bold, soft, slow, wild…
All of you is welcome.
🍓 Why Wild Play?
What if play was your pathway to power?
To pleasure?
To presence?
To Eros?
Wild Play is a 4-day, 3-night retreat where you’ll unravel the performance of who you think you should be… and meet the messy, mischievous, magnetic… self that lives underneath.
It’s a space to throw out the scripts we’ve been taught about sexuality and instead, reconnect with your erotic aliveness, your body’s wisdom, and your capacity for joy, curiosity, and deeply felt pleasure.
Through a curated journey of erotic exploration, archetypal expression, ritual, and irreverent joy, you'll be invited to:
Embody your seduction without apology
Try on characters, energies, and desires you’ve never dared voice
Be witnessed in your weird, your wild, your raw erΦtic truth
Play in a container where permission is sacred and nothing is too much
You’ll learn.
You’'ll laugh.
You’ll probably flirt with your edges.
And you’ll definitely meet versions of yourself you didn’t know you were longing for.
Through body-led exploration, sensory play, and immersive experiences, you’ll:
💋 Reclaim pleasure as a personal practice
🔥 Explore desire, turn-on, and boundaries with clarity and curiosity
🫦 Learn how to follow your body’s cues and express what you want
💃 Meet your edges and expand your capacity for sensation, connection, and fun
🎲 Engage in guided workshops and experiences that bring learning, laughter, and boldness together
🛁 Immerse yourself in spaces for erotic play and connection
This is your playground. Your permission slip.
A chance to remember how good it feels to say yes to all of the facets of your Eros.
💋 What You'll Experience
Expect a blend of:
→ Workshops and Guided embodied practices to discover more about your eroticism and its expression
→ Rituals, group activities and Temple spaces to explore sensual and erotic expression and connection
→ Restorative space to unwind, reflect, or integrate at your own rhythm
→ A sexy vault heist… i know intriguing!
→ Spa, Pool or bath times
→ Lush food, cosy spaces, and juicy humans to share the journey with
You don’t need any prior experience to join. You just need to be curious.
☀️ a day at wild play
- Mornings: nourishing breakfast, movement to land in your body
- Late-morning: immersive workshops exploring play, archetypes, desire, and embodied expression, always consent-led and choice-based
- Mid-day: another round of delicious, wholesome food to fuel your pleasure
- Early afternoons: time for rest, a swim or chats
- Late afternoons: invitation back into the field with experiences designed to awaken your Eros and playful edge
- Early evenings: another lovingly prepared meal to nourish your body before what unfolds next…
- Evening experiences that range from cheeky experiences to ritual spaces and temples of pleasure.
A rhythm that balances depth and delight, with plenty of room to participate in your own way and for rest.
🌳 location
Location:
The event will be held at a gorgeous private propety in Torquay.
- The venue blends open-air freedom with refined interiors
- 3 saunas
- 1 cold plunge
- Outdoors pool and spa
- Camping spots on the property
Find out more about the retreat space here: https://www.scorpioestate.com/
Team:
You'll be held by a team with decades of experience in sexuality, embodiment, facilitation, and trauma-aware support, grounded in both deep care and delicious play.
Come learn from amazing facilitators including Velvet Lilith, Lotus Eros and Esther Ogilvie.
Who is this for?
Wild Play is for you if:
🌹 You’re curious about embodiment, erotic expression, and expanding your capacity for pleasure
🌹 You value spaces where consent, boundaries, and personal agency are non-negotiable
🌹 You’re excited to explore archetypes, eros, creativity, and emotional aliveness through play
🌹 You’re willing to be witnessed, in your pleasure, your weirdness, your edges
🌹 You’re seeking a space that holds both the sacred and the mundane with reverence
🌹 You’re interested in deepening your connection to self and others
Whether you’re kinky, vanilla, tender, shy, loud, or somewhere in between, this space welcomes all flavours of authentic expression.
This is not the space for you if:
⛔️ You’re looking for a hook-up space
⛔️ You’re unwilling to engage with the foundational principles of consent, boundaries, and shared agreements
⛔️ You expect others to cater to your desires without invitation or dialogue
⛔️ You’re unwilling to access emotional vulnerability, witnessing, or being witnessed
⛔️ You’re unwilling to take responsibility for your own experience
⛔️ You need substances (alcohol, drugs): this is a sober container, excluding prescribed medication
⛔️ You’re attached to binary gender dynamics or heteronormative assumptions. We honour a spectrum of identities, expressions, and orientations
This is a brave space. Which means we’re here to stretch, not force. To explore, not impress. To remember who we are, through the magic of play.
Come as you are.
Leave with more of you, new skills, unforgettable memories, and maybe a cheeky souvenir or two.
Velvet lilith - retreat host and facilitator
I’m Velvet Lilith, Somatic Sexologist and guide to your most unapologetic self.
I create spaces where Eros is not something to hide, but something to honour.
As a facilitator, I hold immersive workshops, retreats and Temples of erotic connections that invite people into deeper relationship with their bodies, boundaries, and desires. These spaces are crafted to feel both playful and profound, where curiosity is celebrated, consent is foundational, and every part of you is welcome.
In my private practice, I work with people who are ready to stop performing sexuality and start embodying it. People who sense there's something deeper, wilder, more honest waiting beneath the scripts they've been handed.
My work is rooted in sex-positivity, nervous system awareness, and the deep belief that pleasure is not a luxury, it's a birthright.
My work is for you if you're ready to explore what sexuality feels like when it's truly yours.
lotus eros - facilitator
Mistress Lotus Eros is a visionary force in sacred sexuality, blending kink, tantra, and somatics to guide deep transformation.
She is the founder of Eros Erotic Temples and a featured speaker and MC for the Sex Education & Kink Stage at Sxpo -Australia’s largest adult expo- where she fuses education with entertainment, turning the taboo into something tangible and relatable.
A trauma-informed initiatrix and community leader, she creates spaces where power, healing, and desire converge.
Esther ogilvie - facilitator
Empowering, insightful, and brimming with a decade of expertise! Esther Ogilvie stands at the forefront of a transformative movement. As a Trauma, Sexuality, and Somatic Embodiment Therapist, she has dedicated herself to unraveling the intricacies of human experience, leading individuals and couples on a journey toward healing and empowerment.
She currently works intensely in the kink, BDSM and tantra world running workshops for sex worker organisations, retreats and events all around Australia to bring a more conscious, accessible and connected element to kink. Her passion lies in helping individuals express their true wants, needs and desires and allow their full sexual expression to come through.
Choose your accomodation
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Camping
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private Queen bedroom
What people have said about velvet’s events
“To see and be seen. To touch and be touched. To taste and be tasted. In safety. With consent. In playfulness. This is bliss. Thank you for creating a beautiful space and for holding it fiercely.”
“Velvet created an amazing space to explore so many sensory delights. Would highly recommend”
“Velvet is an incredible facilitator allowing participants to feel safe, supported and welcome no matter your experience level in Temples. This event is kept open for exploration and a space for it to be whatever you need it to be - whether that's light and playful or deep, sensual connection with others. Thank you for a beautiful evening - Rosie”
